Tired to Wired in the Bedroom

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We have all been there….you’ve worked your eight or nine hour day, or been home all day with the kids, helped them with their homework, cooked dinner, cleaned up the kitchen, bathed the kids, read them a story, and tucked them in.

After doing a few more things around the house, you make your way to bed.  This is the moment you’ve been waiting for…you hop in bed…get nice and snuggly until you realize he’s coming your way… He kisses your neck and begins to rub you.  He is obviously excited.

Your thoughts, “NOT tonight! I’m too tired for this mess,” or, “I don’t have time for this right now.” or “He likes the same positions all of the time,” or, “He’s is a one-minute wonder,” or “Can’t he see how hard I’ve worked all day, the meal I prepared, how clean the house is?” or, all of the above.  

If you are wise, you will not share these thoughts….oh, no! You are way too considerate.  You take the “polite” route and utter in your sweetest voice, “Honey, you know I have a headache, right?”

{Insert every sad, confused, disappointed face emoji known to mankind………}

He’s crushed.  You wish you had the energy to fire up your bedroom. You wish things were more exciting and spontaneous.  But, you don’t and they aren’t.  You are tired….with a real or imagined headache….
I know how you feel, Sis. I’ve been there too.  It’s been 17 years of marriage for us and thank God, I am no longer tired! I’m wired! My bedroom is finally on fire!  

You know what?  I want you to feel this sexual revitalization too!  So, rub your tired eyes and read my 5 Tips to Revitalize Your Mind, Body, and Spirit.

Download my FREE mini e-book at bit.ly/tired2wired.

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24 thoughts on “Tired to Wired in the Bedroom

  1. Women need to know that those endorphins will cure a headache. You can Google for proof so men aren’t buying that one. I try my hardest not to say no often. Even when I’m tired or have to get up in an hour or two.

  2. Girl, you ain’t neva lied! Lately though I’m finding that it’s just plain ole hard to go to sleep even though I’m dogged tired. Yet along attempting any kind of relations with the hubs. But it makes me feel better knowing that even he has days like this too. It balances things out, lol.

  3. Sometimes it is hard to not say no. I’ve been so stressed with work and just tired trying to do everything. Even though in the back of my mind I know how important doing the deed is.

  4. I’m not married yet, so I can’t relate. But I can see myself being so tired with work and family in the future, so I definitely could use these tips in the future/

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